14k Yellow Gold Blackened Toi et Moi Pear Diamond Pendant Necklace
A modern take on the classic Toi et Moi design, this pendant necklace pairs two pear-shaped diamonds.
Crafted in 14k yellow gold, the diamonds are brought into even sharper focus through a blackened finish that creates dramatic contrast. Positioned side by side, the pear-shaped diamonds create a soft, asymmetrical silhouette that feels contemporary.
Suspended from an 18-inch chain, the pendant rests beautifully at the collarbone, offering a refined statement that layers effortlessly or shines on its own.
Made to order for you. In-stock pieces ship within 2 business days, while made-to-order pieces are completed and shipped in approximately 2-3 weeks.
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Pampillonia Size Guide
Find the perfect fit for you or a loved one with our jewelry size guide
Using a Ring You Already Have:
- Choose a ring that fits the finger you want to size.
- Measure the inside diameter: Place the ring on a ruler and measure the distance straight across the inside of the center of the band (in millimeters). Make sure you’re measuring the inner diameter only.
- Use the chart to match your measurement to the closest U.S. ring size.
Make Your Own Ring Sizer:
To find your perfect ring size, all you need is a measuring tape and a strip of paper or a piece of string.
- Wrap a strip of paper or string around the base of the intended finger.
- Using the pen or marker, mark where the end of the string overlaps with the rest.
- Lay the string flat and use a ruler to measure the length between the end and your mark in millimeters.
Sizes
| Pampillonia Size | Length (in) | Length (mm) |
|---|---|---|
| 3 | 1.74 in | 44.2 mm |
| 3.5 | 1.79 cm | 45.5 mm |
| 4 | 1.84 in | 46.8 mm |
| 4.5 | 1.89 in | 48 mm |
| 5 | 1.94 in | 49.3 mm |
| 5.5 | 1.99 in | 50.6 mm |
| 6 | 2.04 in | 51.9 mm |
| 6.5 | 2.09 in | 53.1 mm |
| 7 | 2.14 in | 54.4 mm |
| 7.5 | 2.19 in | 55.7 mm |
| 8 | 2.24 in | 57 mm |
| 8.5 | 2.29 in | 58.3 mm |
| 9 | 2.34 in | 59.5 mm |
| 9.5 | 2.39 in | 60.8 mm |
| 10 | 2.44 in | 62.1 mm |
| 10.5 | 2.49 in | 63.4 mm |
| 11 | 2.54 in | 64.6 mm |
| 11.5 | 2.59 in | 65.9 mm |
| 12 | 2.65 in | 67.2 mm |
| 12.5 | 2.71 in | 68.5 mm |
| 13 | 2.75 in | 69.7 mm |
Using a Bracelet You Already Have:
Place your bracelet on a flat surface and use a measuring tape or ruler to measure from one end to the other. Be sure to include the clasp in the total length.
Make Your Own Sizer:
To find your perfect link bracelet size, all you need is a measuring tape and a strip of paper or a piece of string.
- Wrap the paper or string around your wrist, just below the wrist bone where you’d normally wear a bracelet.
- Mark where the ends meet and measure the length (in inches or centimeters).
- Add a little room:
Snug fit - add ¼–½ inch.
Comfortable fit - add ½–¾ inch.
Loose fit - add 1 inch or more
Sizes
| Pampillonia Size | Length (in) | Length (cm) |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | 6 in | 15.2 cm |
| 2 | 6.5 in | 16.5 cm |
| 3 | 7 in | 17.7 cm |
Using a Bangle You Already Have:
Lay your bangle down so it's sitting in a perfect circle. Use a soft measuring tape or a paper strip to measure the inside circumference.
Make Your Own Sizer:
If the bangle does not have a clasp, it must fit over your hand, so the measurement would focus on your hand, not your wrist.
- Make a fist and bring your thumb and pinky together (as if putting on a bangle).
- Wrap a measuring tape or strip of paper around the widest part of your knuckles.
- Note the measurement where it’s snug but not tight.
If the bangle does have a clasp, measure your wrist:
- Wrap the paper or string around your wrist, just below the wrist bone where you’d normally wear a bracelet.
- Mark where the ends meet and measure the length (in inches or centimeters) and add about 1/2 inch
Sizes
| Pampillonia Size | Length (in) | Length (cm) |
|---|---|---|
| 1 | 6 in | 15.2 cm |
| 2 | 6.5 in | 16.5 cm |
| 3 | 7 in | 17.7 cm |
Use a Necklace You Already Have:
- Lay the necklace flat on a level surface, ensuring it's straight with no kinks.
- Use a ruler or measuring tape to measure from end to end, including the clasp.
Make Your Own Necklace Sizer:
- Place a soft measuring tape or a piece of string around your neck where you’d like your necklace to sit.
- For a choker fit, keep it close to the base of your neck. If you prefer a longer style, adjust the tape or string to your desired length.
- Note the point where the ends come together and lay it flat and measure it with a ruler to find your ideal length.
| Length (in) | Length (cm) | Position on the Body |
|---|---|---|
| 14" | 35-36 cm | Sits tightly at the base of the neck like a choker. |
| 16" | 40-41 cm | Rests at the base of the throat/collarbones |
| 18" | 45-46 cm | Sits right around the collarbone |
| 20" | 50-51 cm | Falls just below the collarbone |
| 22" | 55-56 cm | Rests between collarbone and bust |
| 24" | 60-61 cm | Falls at the top of the bust |
| 30" | 76 cm | Rests at mid-chest |
| 36" | 90-91 cm | Falls below the bust and can be good for doubling |
How to Choose Necklace Length
Pairing necklace lengths with different necklines helps create balance, highlight your features, and elevate your style effortlessly.
- Strapless & Off-the-Shoulder - Chokers or short styles (14–16") highlight your collarbones beautifully.
- Sweetheart - Soft, delicate pieces (16–18") mirror the neckline’s curve.
- V-Neck - Longer pendants (18–24") enhance the natural “V” shape.
- Crew & High Neck - Go longer (20–30") to add contrast and length.
- Collared Shirts - Layer short chains or add a longer pendant for a polished look.
- Turtlenecks - Long layers (24–36") make a statement effortlessly.
Bracelets & Bangles:
- Between Sizes: We recommend sizing up rather than down.
- Stacking: If you plan to stack bracelets or watches, leave a bit more room.
- Delicate chains look best with a closer fit and it will help prevent catching the chain and accidentally breaking it.
- Chunky cuffs or heavy styles may need a slightly looser fit for comfort.
Rings:
- Between Sizes: We recommend sizing up rather than down. Finger size can naturally fluctuate throughout the day, and a ring that’s too snug may be difficult or uncomfortable to slide over the knuckle. It’s easier to adjust a slightly loose ring at home than to make a tight one fit comfortably.
- Measure at the Right Time: Your fingers can change sizes throughout the day - the best time to measure is toward the middle or end of the day.
- Consider Band Width: Wider bands fit more snugly. You may need to size up at least a half size for chunky bands (>4mm) and size down accordingly for very thin designs (<1.3mm).
- Temperature Matters: Cold fingers shrink, warm fingers swell. Aim for a room temperature measurement.
- Stacking: Similar to considering a wide band, if you're stacking multiple rings, go slightly larger for comfort.
- Knuckle Awareness: If your knuckle is much larger than the base of your finger, measure both and choose a size in between.
